Do you ever experience self- confidence crisis (TIDAK PEDE) in facing a situation or problem? 
I am sure that you and every people ever experience self- confidence crisis in the life; from child to adult, moreover old-age. Loosing of confidence certainly becomes something which is very disturbing, moreover when we are faced on challenge or new situation. There are says: “Oh, I am not liked her,… who always confidence… the feeling is always there is something lack from myself… I am ashamed to be myself!?
These are some points which you can think about the differences between confidence people and uncofidence people, but you must remember not to have over confidence. Moreover, you love yourself over (narcism). The effect is not heavy, maybe crazy.
characters of Confidence Individual
Some characters of individual who has proportional confidence are:
1. Believe on competency and self- ability, so she doesn’t need praise.
2. Not push to show conformity, only to be taken by others or group.
3. Brave to receive and face others’ refusement. Brave to be herself.
4. Have good self- controlled (not moody and stabilized emotion).
5. Have internal locus of control.
6. Optimism.
characters of Uncofidence Individual
Some characters of individual who is unconfidence are:
1. Try to show conformity.
2. Keep afraid (worried) to refusement.
3. Difficult to accept self- reality and think bad to herself.
4. Pessimism, easy to value everything from negative side.
5. Afraid to fail, so avoid all risks.
6. Have external locus of control.
Negative Mindset:
1. Focus obligations to herself.
2. Totality and dualism way of thinking.
3. Futuristic pessimism.
4. Uncritize and selective to self- criticism.
5. Labeling.
6. Difficult to accept praise or positive things from others.
Positive Mindset:
1. Face problem as challenge.
2. Enjoy life.
3. Open thinking to accept suggestion and idea.
4. Loosing negative thinking soon after the thinking grows.
5. Thank with what she haves.
6. Not hear indefinite gossip
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